TFYT: Tools for your toolbox that assist you in life
Program: Complete lessons and exercise guides
Mindset: Simple philosophies to live life by
Workshop: Group exercises
Core Foundational Element:


Signs of Maturity

A desire, willingness and ability to act mature to be treated as mature.

Maturity is a choice to step up to the responsibilities of adulthood and be accountable for your actions, in return for the self-respect you gain.

I get the respect, appreciation and love of those realizing my maturity.
I give up childish ways and grow in becoming an adult.


You are required, when you take a chance (opportunity) to maturely choose (willingly commit) to play by the rules (to be morally accountable), holding yourself accountable to seeing more than you may want to see, because you are now looking at the bigger picture from a mature perspective.

Understand, you must BE mature to be recognized as mature, which is how we are confirmed that the way we intended to act, resulted in the way we were perceived – Reflection Projection works with this concept.


You decide to be responsible and accountable for your actions, giving more thought to what if’s and consequences before you irrationally and immaturely run off and do un-thought-out things.

You learn from previous experiences and correct your errors – this is refinement of your ability to grow from past mistakes so as not to make them in the future – a very mature sign.

You strive to maintain a feeling of worthiness by honoring and respecting the values you believe govern that worthiness – Your Personal Moral Code of Ethics. You chose to meet the requirements because you believe they represent value to you. We all have core beliefs, we all judge ourselves and others – it is innate in humanity – that can be seen through a perspective as a very very good thing to become aware of.

You feel a sense of honor and duty, through character and integrity, to uphold the values of those beliefs.
You decide to consciously choose a plan of action that includes these beliefs and measure yours desires against them for desirability or undesirability.

You understand how unprepared you are for random occurrences and are aware of the need to have an ultimate goal to work towards, a plan of action to follow and diligence in utilizing your best self.

You have the ability to control your responses – especially in the face of emotionally challenging moments.

You are brave enough to honestly look at Your Impact.


By reason of maturity, you are known by your potentials as well as your capabilities.

Maturity and refinement of skills is a gift received when you can detect the subtle changes occurring from your additional thought and consideration allowing you to more accurately predict your impact.


Are you showing signs of maturity?


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